Love Messages – Pick a pile

Hello my beautiful readers!

It has been really long since I did a pick a pile reading. What better topic to choose than love?

This reading is applicable for this week and also at any time you may find yourself drawn to this post.

There is an ‘extended message’ section and also ‘current feelings’ part in each pile. I understand that this post may look generic but if you have found your way to this post or if you have decided to participate in picking a pile, then I am certain that there is a message for you in here.

Go ahead and center yourself. Take some deep relaxing breaths and choose from a pile below. Once you are done, scroll down and read the message.

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Hari Om Namah Shivaya!

Pile one

Your card is the Page of cups. This week, you are encouraged to engage with your inner child and soak your heart in doing things that make you happy.

Your creative juices are waiting to flow. Make way for hobbies, passion, and interests. Bring out your playful side and make time for fun.

An offer of love or friendship is also on the cards. Rely on your intuition when dealing with new people.

If you are in a committed relationship already, make time for your lover and deepen your bond. Get intimate and utter words that heal and not hurt.

Pregnancy is on the cards for some of you or this week could be about handling matters related to childbirth.

Extended message: For many of you who chose the first pile, a painful ending may be in sight. Either you have experienced the demise of a connection or maybe the relationship is headed in that direction. It is important that you take very good care of yourself and accept help if you are feeling emotionally vulnerable.

Unsaid words from your person: This person may be smiling on the outside but is hurting inside. They may choose to surround themselves with people or multiple options as a way to distract their mind away from the storm brewing inside. They miss you but may not admit this.

Pile Two

Your card is the 9 of cups. This week is screaming out loud that you should DO YOU. It is a time of cleansing and caring. For self.

Learn to be happy in your own company and give yourself some solo time to recharge, replenish, and re-emerge.

If things have not been going too well in your personal life or if you have just met with a disappointing end with someone, here comes a reminder to stop worrying and to know that you are on the right path. This connection was not supporting you nor was it conducive to your personal well-being and growth. Take a sigh of relief and say good riddance to bad rubbish.

For my lovely readers who are already in a committed relationship, it is time to enjoy the simple pleasures of life and tend to each other’s happiness and your individual selves. Book a couple’s spa, for instance, or get away from the humdrum and the hustle and bustle to make room for some quality time together.

Extended message: Someone in your life is resisting change and is not ready to work through the differences. They are acting in a stubborn manner and despite knowing that their behavior is impacting the relationship are reluctant to adapt. Do not let this person’s behaviour spoil the week for you. The 9 of cups is about honoring yourself and taking back your energy from those unworthy of your time and efforts and redirecting it in your personal development.

Unsaid words from your person: Your person feels unworthy of your love deep down. They have deep-seated inferiority complexes and insecurities when it comes to you. They also often fear that you will someday leave them or that you may reject them if they truly showed you how they feel. So they mask their true feelings and continue feeling lost often engaging in blame game.

Pile Three

Your card is the 9 of swords. Ooh! What’s weighing on your mind and keeping you up at night?

You need help or you must help yourself get out of negative thought spirals. You could be working yourself up thinking and re-thinking about someone or a situation that has brought you pain, suffering, and heartache. Your mental state may not be at it’s best and if this persists, then you have to find assistance.

Have you been sleeping well? Are you having unpleasant dreams? Your head needs rest and subconsciously, this is a sign that you are too stressed over something. You may even be having dreams about an ex or losing the person you love. Try to relax and loosen your mind. Seek help, if need be.

If you are already in a committed relationship, then this week may present some stressful times in the connection. Learn to relax and stop expecting or fearing the worse. Engage in space cleansing to release negative energy from your surrounding and focus on working out the challenging aspects in your connection with compassion, patience, and calm.

Extended Message: To some of the readers who chose this pile, a message is emerging about a person. This could be your potential love interest or even an ex. This person has chosen to be single. They do not want to be in a commitment. Single life seems easier to them at this point and no matter how hard you try, they may not be willing to commit or re-commit to the connection. Respect their decision and let them go.

Unsaid words from your person: Your person thought that your relationship was growing too toxic for them to handle and that is why they chose to leave or grow distant. You often triggered them to feel jealous and they may have felt like they are constantly fighting to hold your attention. This somewhere pushed them away.